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    October 31

    It's a little Girl !

     
    盼这天盼了好久,上周五终于真相大白,是个小女孩。时间过得好快,从知道怀孕到现在,一转眼4个月了,再一转眼,小孩子就要出来啦,^_^
     
    我原想是个男孩的,呵呵,可能因为我们家我老爸他们兄弟,还有我堂哥都是先有的男孩。女孩说实话俺和老婆都不大知道怎么教育,不过女孩好,和爸爸亲,haha, 俺就怕她将来被我宠坏咯。俺的理想是一男一女,先来哪个也无所谓。下次就有压力了,我估计每多生一个孩子,我就得晚5年退休。我可不想有三个,为他们工作到60岁啊。呵呵
     
    小老鼠还没出来,俺和老婆已经给她计划了一个学习清单了。呵呵,幸福又可怜的小老鼠
     
    1. 游泳,这个是 No. 1,她喜欢不喜欢都得学。锻炼身体又长身高。牛肉+牛奶+游泳,小老鼠长到 1.65m 应该没一点问题。俺可以带她入门。
     
    2. Golf,这个俺从 30 岁开始学,不容易啊。俺 team 里一个美国小孩,说从 7 岁开始打,现在是 2+ 的水平。俺孩子就算将来不做 Pro,也得轻松打 Signle Digit。有天赋有兴趣的话,老爸把退休金都拿出来送你去做 Pro。这个俺可以带她入门,两岁上练习场,五岁上场。
     
    3. 桥牌或者围棋,开发智力,以后一家人可以凑一桌桥牌,呵呵。这个俺也可以带她入门。
     
    4. 学一样乐器,这个俺是一窍不通的,她老妈比我强那么一点(认识五线谱,对弹琴有点兴趣,呵呵)。所以这个可能比较 challenging,不过女孩子总是要懂一点音乐的好。
     
    5. 书法或国画,中国传统文化的精髓,俺从小有兴趣,可惜没有条件学。只有寄希望给下一代了。这个也不容易,得找老师带她入门。
     
    6. 网球,健康的户外运动,锻炼身体。这个俺也可以带她入门
     
    暂时那么几个必学的。其他我会玩的,都可以带她入门, 比如滑雪,溜冰。应该够她学的了吧?看看她对哪个最有兴趣,能玩到什么样的水平,呵呵
     
    那天和老婆商量这个,
     
    老鼠她妈:你花那么多心血,她将来要是嫁了个女婿你看不上眼的,那不气死你?
    老鼠她爸:说得有道理,不过学得多了,档次总要高一点吧?当年你要是会这个 list 上的一半,可能看得上俺这个农民嘛?haha
     
     

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    Rui Huwrote:
    Congratulations!! What a great news!
    Don't put too much pressure on your baby girl!!
    Jan. 1
    Gangjiang Liwrote:
    恭喜恭喜!我还要教我的女儿打游戏,和老板一起对战或者并肩作战。呵呵!
    Nov. 4
    碎碎念wrote:
    嗯~~~
    终于知道偶嫁不出去的理由了~~~
    先天不足,后天又没能及时补上,再摊上个老农身份。我!我!我!出嫁的时候非得让这只小老鼠扛裙摆不可!!!
    Nov. 2
    Fengwrote:
    Dance is not something I or my wife has any interest in. But if she becomes interested in it, I will be supportive... :P Flexibility is not an issue here, in order to play Golf well, one needs to have very good flexility.
     
    You are right, raising daughter doesn't seem to be a good deal.....
     
    It's a tough balance to strick between good things to learn and free space. Somethings are really not negotiable for me, like learning Chinese, learning swimming. Most other things, I will try to teach her and foster her interest to grow, but at the end of the day, if she is indeed not interested in Golf, I am not going to force her.
    Nov. 2
    听到wrote:
    happy for you two. the list is long enough.. I would give her more free space, which will help her develop a healthy character
     
    btw, my forecast on the gender proves to be wrong. couldn't believe it
    Nov. 1
    miaomiao xyzwrote:
    好像没有跳舞也!柔韧性要从小练,如果不在list上,到了20多岁就练不出来了。。。just a reminder...:P
    女儿出嫁,无论嫁给谁,最伤心的人都是她老爸。
    Oct. 31

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