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January 02 展望 2008总结了 2007,来展望一下 2008,给自己定个目标。
工作:
1. 争取去读一个 top 10 的兼职 MBA,开阔自己的眼界,同时给自己补一补商业管理上的基础知识。
2. 继续把工作做好,在工作中不断提高自己。尤其是自己的 Soft Skill,提高 Leadership。待人处事要更成熟,更 Respectful,更有 Empathy。
3. 培养自己的 Network。
家庭:
1. 希望宝宝能健康的出生,快乐的成长。
2. 希望老婆能换一份工作,搬到同一个城市住,再买个大房子,结束两地分居。
健康:
1. 每天早上要喝牛奶,吃早餐。
2. 一周至少去一次 Gym。
财富:
1. 还是我的 Benchmark, 争取 >20% return。
修身:
1. 多看书,至少有三类书可看:a) 中国传统文化 b) 工作上的提高 c) 投资。 有空在网上多看有营养的文章,少看没营养的八卦。
2. Golf in 100,争取进 90。 不过如果去读书的话,那 Golf 可能只能先放一放了。
December 20 A summary of 2007
Another year close to the end, it’s my 7th year in the States. Want to write down a summary of several key aspects of my life in the passing 2007, before I start to think about my goals in 2008.
Career:
· Assessment - 80/100 · Delivered good results on all projects I worked on; unfortunately the company was struggling (stock from $90 to $45) just as the whole Financial Service industry. Can’t be very happy if we are losing. · Responsibility has grown steadily; start to be a people manager · Led a new strategy development taking a customer centered innovation approach, which was very different from the traditional COF analytically heavy approach. Good learning in customer focused innovation, as well as managing a pretty big project team. · I didn’t make good improvement on my soft skills. My working style was still the very straightforward / forceful one that was natural for me. This is my major developmental opportunity.
Family:
· Assessment - 90/100 · Expect to be a farther soon. Our baby comes probably 6 months earlier than we originally planned, but really no complaints. We are happy Daddy-and-Mommy-To-Be · Bought a condo for my parents in China. All the past 30 years, it has all been them giving everything they had to their kids, now I am starting to fulfill my responsibility to them as a son. I am very happy that I can make their retired life more comfortable. They have always been very pride of me and this makes me feel that I didn’t disappoint them. · Still live apart from my wife, what a pain.
Wealth:
· Assessment - 95/100 · The condo we bought early this year has appreciated probably 50%. I won’t sell it unless I can buy a better one for my parents anyway ( I hope there will be such a day ). So all the short term appreciation doesn’t really mean much for me. But hadn’t I bought it early, I wouldn’t have enough money to but it for them now. Plus, I wouldn’t dare to buy any real estate in today’s market given the bubbles in China. · My investment in stock market has done well till Oct. Lately it lost 25%. Overall, I am probably still 30% up for the year. No comparison to some folks who made several hundreds percent gains in the crazy Chinese market, but I am very happy with achieving my benchmark: beating the market, and >20% return. · Wife started to work end of last year, the days that we can get tax refund from Uncle Sam is gone. A good thing though, I hope I can pay more and more tax to Uncle Sam in the future.... :P
Health:
· Assessment – 80/100 · Couldn’t keep up with Gym exercise with Work, Family and Golf. Health condition is OK.
Others:
· Assessment – 60/100 · My golf score sucks. I set a goal of breaking 90 at the beginning of the year, I only managed to break 100 once. So it was not even close to my goal. I do feel I have come a long way and now have a good understanding of golf swing; otherwise, I wouldn’t even give myself 60 in this category. · Almost didn’t spend any time on other hobbies such as tennis, ski etc. · Still not reading enough books, I probably read 3-4 books the whole year, less than the 10 books mark I set at the beginning of the year.
September 11 Passion, Patience and PerseveranceI never lacked passion, what I don't always have is patience and perseverance.
I was so obessesed in Golf in the recent couple weeks, really hoping to make a leap of progress on my game. The result, yes, I made good progress, but I was not enjoying the game as much as I could. I became so upset when I hit bad shots and almost broke my clubs several times. More importantly, I could'nt focus on other important things in my life, such as my family, my work and my application etc. The truth is Golf is not something one can improve by 10 shots in just a short period of time, it takes patience and perseverance, just as most of other important things in one's life.
I've heard people talking about learning things from playing golf, seems I am learning something from it too.
Here is what I am going to do tacticly:
1. practice or play golf three times a week, spend an additional 1-2 hours a week studying videos, lessons etc.
2. spend 10-20 minutes stretching my body to improve flexibility 3-5 times a week
3. be more patient with my progress, no club hitting after a bad shot, most important thing about golf: enjoy the game
4. no thinking of golf the rest of time, focusing on other priorities ( improve myself on my work, finish my applications by the end of Sept )
引用《荀子:劝学》节录以自勉:
积土成山,风雨兴焉;积水成渊,蛟龙生焉;积善成德,而神明自得,圣心备焉。故不积跬步,无以至千里;不积小流,无以成江海。骐骥一跃,不能十步;驽马十驾,功在不舍。锲而舍之,朽木不折;锲而不舍,金石可镂
For Golf and for anything else in my life
August 23 In memory of JimingIn front:
I was deeply shocked and depressed by the news that one of my good/old friends/classmates died of auto accident in China. Shocking, depressing as it was, it was also eye opening for me. I never seriously realized that life is so fragile, and any of us could die any time. This accident just reminds me of the importance of treating myself well, treating those who I care well everyday. Jobs once said one should treat every day as if it was his/her last day. (Easy said than done though, for most people). How true......
八月九号晚上从朋友的来信中得到噩耗,心情久久的不能平静。从最初的震惊,到随后的悲痛,惋惜,伤感,真可谓百感交集。我悲痛于好友的早逝,他亲人之难以想象的悲伤。我惋惜于继民这年轻的出类拔萃的生命,居然就此而折。我伤感于生命的脆弱,每个人都为生活繁禄奔波,可又有多少是在我们掌握之中?
最近一次见到继民,是去年春天我回国探亲。我到杭州后一给电话,他马上就说要叫上几个老友出来叙旧。五年未见,生活好像没有在他身上留下多少痕迹,还是一样的瘦,还是一如既往的热情,机敏,充满活力。他驱车带我,章利群,羊振冈看杭州的夜景,到酒吧喝酒。那时他好像刚换了工作,从他的描述中,看得出来他对新的工作很有热情。我看到的是一个充满自信的俞继民。我也由衷地为他能找到适合他的舞台而高兴。几个高中老友之中,我一直都觉得他会最早出人头地,他的热情,活力,真诚待人让他朋友满天下,他的聪明远高于他读书成绩所示(虽然他已经成绩优秀),应付任何事业上的挑战绰绰有余。我总觉得他仿佛是为我们这个充满机会又略带点浮躁的社会量身订制。那时候,我想五年以后,他一定可以在事业上有个飞跃。他还高兴的告诉我,他就要做爸爸了。让我羡慕之余,不禁的感慨自己在朋友中落伍仿佛越来越多。
屈指往前算,和继民相识,居然快有二十年了。记得那时在镇中,我在一班,他在四班,本来以我一贯的不善交际,应该是无缘相识的。那时候我邻居两个兄弟,和他相熟,所以一来二往,居然也就认识了,不过我所记得的交往,仿佛仅仅限于我们有时忘了带某门课的课本,互相借书而已。真正的相熟,是在高中以后。记得新生报到的时候,所有同学中,好像只有他是认识的,于是做了高一的同桌。那时人小,玩兴未泯,老师上课讲的东西也简单,所以两个人在课堂上经常打打闹闹。终于有一次好象把毛文老师惹火了,具体缘由是记不得了,只记得他把继民拉出了座位,然后不久以后,我和他各自的同桌就是上课很认真的徐航和陈彤。
再往后,就是那一段难以忘怀的延续了十年的一起下四国,打牌,搓麻将的交往。从高一高二的周末,一直到我研究生毕业出国前的每个寒暑假,继民,沈锐,沈维阳,羊振冈,章利群和我总是会聚在一起打牌下棋。而聚会的地点,几乎无一例外的在继民的家中。记得那时候到他家门口的时候,总是战战兢兢,恐惧于他家门口可能出现的狼狗,往往是要等他或他家人出来拉住狼狗,才敢进门。那时候,在他家玩过通宵是家常便饭,我们打牌,抽烟,无拘无束的聊天,经常是到天蒙蒙亮,大家也精疲力竭,于是出门去吃碗馄饨,然后各自回家睡觉。对我来说,这段有点颓废,有点土但是纯朴的经历,这些老朋友,事隔多年以后,还是让我念念不忘,时时想重温。去年在富阳的时候,沈维阳也从宁波回来一聚,多年以后,我们又一起喝酒,打牌,感觉像是回到了当年。因为继民第二天要回杭州上班,我们散场在两点钟。没想到的是,这匆匆一别,竟成永诀!
生命脆弱,人世无常。朋友们,让我们为生活奔波之余,多多珍重。善待自己,善待自己所珍惜的人,不为生命留下遗憾。
万水千山相隔,欲送老友一程亦不可得,仅以这记忆中的零星片断,以资纪念。继民,走好。 |
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